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 When a parent dies, you lose your past; when a child dies, you lose your future. - Anonymous



ARE YOU LISTENING?
Sharon J. Bryant

Are you listening Lord
To what these parents have said?
Do you hear their faith in You
Each night as they go to bed?

Can you see the pain Lord,
That so many are going through each day
These are parents whose child has died
They're lost and can't find their way

Are you listening Lord
Do you see the tears they cry
None of us understand some things
Nor any of the reasons why

Our children are gone Lord
Taken from us in a flash
We had no warning given to us
Hopes of our futures were dashed

Were you in the hospitals Lord
With the ones whose child was ill?
They begged you to help them
As their hearts suddenly stood still

Were you with Me Lord
That day so long ago
When I begged you "Don't take my son"
Were you watching me down below?

Were you with me Lord
When I stood there by his grave?
I couldn't "feel" you there
Why, his life, didn't you save?

Have you been there Lord
On those nights I barely got by?
When I felt a hand on my shoulder
Was that You standing by my side?


What do we do now Lord,
Where do we go from day to day?
How do we cope with our hearts broken
Lord, somehow You must show us the way

We need a miracle from you Lord
We need to know You can hear
We've lost the most precious thing to us
But how do we cope from here?

How do we learn to smile again
And how do we get through the years?
Is our lives forever filled with sadness
Do we ever stop shedding tears?

I know You lost Your Son Lord,
I know you sacrificed Him for Us
How did YOU go on Lord,
Who did You have to trust?

My life was changed so long ago
And nothing's been the same since then
I've survived, that's true
But at times, I find myself stumbling again

We hurt so much Lord,
As you very well know
We need You to help us, because this journey
Takes so long to go

Can you hear me Lord
I ask in memory of my son
I'll wait for You to call my name
And know my journey is done.

But give me the wisdom, whatever it takes
To help someone who is new
This is so hard to endure Lord
To give our child to You


 
Perhaps they are not the stars,
but rather openings in Heaven
where the love of our lost ones
pours through and shines down
upon us to let us know they are happy.

Eskimo Legend

 

A wife who loses a husband is called a widow. A husband who loses a wife is called a widower. A child who loses his parents is called an orphan. But...there is no word for a parent who loses a child, that's how awful the loss is! - Neugeboren 1976, 154

 

 











May God grant you always,
A sunbeam to warm you
A moonbeam to charm you
A sheltering Angel
So nothing can harm you.
Laughter to cheer you,
Faithful friends near you.
And whenever you pray,
Heaven to hear you.
 




May the road rise to meet you,
May the wind be always at your back,
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
The rains fall soft upon your fields and,
Until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of His hand.








Light a Candle
Unknown

And I will light a candle
for you,
To shatter all the darkness
And bless the little time we knew.
Like a beacon in the night,
The flame will burn and guide us on our way.
Oh, today I light a candle for you.

 Light a Candle
Light a candle for those we mourn.
Into a new life they will be born.
Do not look for them at the gravesite.
They are somewhere else radiating their beautiful light.
They have gone to a new world where there is no darkness, no pain.
Their light and essence will always remain.
Light a candle for those who have left this mortal place.
They are free to travel through time and space.
When we think of them, they are near.
When we sit in a beautiful garden. Their voices we hear.
When we listen to a divine symphony,
We close our eyes, their faces we see.
Light a candle for they have not really gone.
With each flickering flame, in your hearts they will always belong.
© A.Pell 24/08/2005


 

Tributes and Condolences
Merry Christmas sweet boy   / Jennifer Mullenmeister (Aunt)
Merry Christmas Kilian As always I'm amazed at how difficult this time of year.  Not just your family who ache every day without you but for the rest of us that love you too.  It really doesn't seem to get any easier.  This year ...  Continue >>
My 3 Days with you.   / Gracie Your Big Sis (Sister)
In 2 days it will be you Birthday. How I would love to see your BIRTHDAY. But then 5 more days till your death date I never wanted it to happen so quick it was to quick.Christmas is not that fun without you. Oh how i wish you were I wonder why G...  Continue >>
If you where here   / Gracie (The Big Sister )
If you where here i would have got to hold you at least 50 more times but god needing you and you are not here with me and I always have missed you but one day i will see you and everything will change and i wil be able to hold you again! Always lov...  Continue >>
Oh Little Baby (Kilians Song)   / Gracie Donahue (Big Sister )
One day my mom said your having a baby brother And I felt so relieved I was letting life into mine And I waiting for you to see you face your litte body your little smile and when I saw it was like seeing an angel Oh what a baby oh your smile is so ...  Continue >>
Remembering Precious Kilian   / Carol Pizzi (Angel Debbie's Mom )
Special Little Angel  / Grandma     Read >>
For your angel date precious Kilian  / Jo-Ann Pacenta Lauren's Mom (Angel family friend )    Read >>
Sending Birthday Wishes To Kilian!  / Carol Pizzi (Angel Debbie's Mom )    Read >>
Missing you on your 5th birthday!  / Mom     Read >>
ME AND YOU WHAT A FAMILY WE ARE  / Big Sister (Sister)    Read >>
kiss kilian  / Jody McKenzie (heaven baby )    Read >>
Memorys of you  / Gracie Donahue (His Sister )    Read >>
Missing you  / Aunt Jen (Aunt)    Read >>
Amazing, awesome angels  / Kayla Patek (none)    Read >>
tears / Gracie Donahue (Sister)    Read >>
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His legacy
 



The 5th Annual Child Life Program Toy Donations done in memory of 
Kilian Richard Donahue.
A total of 135 toys were donated by loving family and friends, and by loving people we don't even know.  I thank you all!

Letters from people you've touched........  





Dear Jim & Jessie,
I have a child who has been very ill for the past 8 years.  Please know that my heart goes out to you for your suffering and your loss.  I understand, to some extent, your situation.  A child is so precious.  I've ordered Kilian for my garden & promise you it will never be just another plant in my collection but a way to keep his short life a beautiful memory in yet another place.
  Sincerely- Pat Smith.

Kilian Donahue Clematis  




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