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Light a Candle
Unknown

And I will light a candle for you,
To shatter all the darkness
And bless the little time we knew.
Like a beacon in the night,
The flame will burn and guide us on our way.
Oh, today I light a candle for you.





A butterfly lights beside us and for a brief moment it's glory and beauty belong to our world, but then it flies on again and although we wish it could have stayed, we are so thankful to have seen it at all.

author unknown




In the Garden
In the most beautiful of gardens,
most carefully tended, there is an
occasional rosebud that never opens.
in all respects that rose is like
all the others, but some unseen cause
keeps it from blooming.
It wilts and fades away without coming
to its radiant unfolding.
What happens in nature's garden
occasionally happens in God's family.
A baby is conceived, beautiful and precious,
but with some unseen, mysterious band
sealing that life so it never comes to
its rightful unfolding.
This child, too, like the bud that
never opens, gradually fades
and is gathered back into God's
heavenly garden of souls-where all
imperfections are made perfect.
Where all injustices are made right,
where all mysteries will finally
be explained, where all sorrows will
finally be turned to joy!

Author Unknown



"If I had a flower for everytime I 

thought of you,

I could walk in my garden forever."

---Irish Proverb

A Special Angel
There's a special angel in heaven
that is a part of me
It is not where I wanted him,
but where God wanted him to be.
He was here but just a moment
like a night time shooting star
And though he is in heaven
He isn't very far
He touched the heart of many
like only an angel can do
I would've held him more often
if the end I only knew.
So I send this special message
to the heavens up above,
please take care of my angel,
and send him all my love.

Author Unknown










May God grant you always,
A sunbeam to warm you
A moonbeam to charm you
A sheltering Angel
So nothing can harm you.
Laughter to cheer you,
Faithful friends near you.
And whenever you pray,
Heaven to hear you.
 






May the road rise to meet you,
May the wind be always at your back,
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
The rains fall soft upon your fields and,
Until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of His hand.























Wings & Halos
By Suzanne in memory of Joey
Born and lost February 14th 2001 

I was so excited when I woke up today
I heard my Mommy was coming to play
I washed my wings and my halo too
Cuz that's what Mommy likes me to do
I went to the place where I knew she'd be
It's where she comes to visit me
She comes for comfort in her despair
Oh Mommy, can't you feel me touching your hair?
I'm by your side all through the night
I never let you out of my sight
I was your baby for only a day
But soon we can be together and play
You know we'll never be apart
You'll never let me leave your heart
Mommy I'm not really in the ground,
lift up your head and look around
The clouds, the birds, the raindrops too
these gifts of life were given to you
Don't cry for me Mommy, I know you're here
Please let me wipe away that tear.
I was sent to you from up above
And you showed me the ultimate love
Instead of giving me all of your years
You freely gave me all of your tears
Remember your relatives, the ones who have died?
They brought me here, I'm by their side
They watch over me and help me to see
just how much you really love me
So don't be unhappy when you come visit me
I'm the angel above you, up in the tree
And when you leave, you'll never be through
You'll always be my Mommy
And I'll always love you



What My Child Has Taught Me
I've learned that you can keep going long after you think you can't.
I've learned that learning to forgive takes a lot of practice.
I've learned that friends can become strangers, and strangers can become friends.
I've learned that ignorance isn't an excuse for the lack of compassion.
I've learned that some people will never, ever - "get it".
I've learned that the community of sorrow is the strongest of all.
I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.
I've learned that your life can be changed in a matter of minutes.
I've learned that the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon.
I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words.
It may be the last time you see them.
I've learned that love isn't measured by the amount of time you have with someone.
I've learned that some sorrow is so deep that it has no words. But so is love.

As your heart aches each day, look at the stars as smiles from the many angels that heaven holds. Thank you for touching my heart, you will be remembered always.
Unknown


Never Forgotten
No longer warmed by the presence of you
grounding me, rounding me full of expectation,
abundant with dreams of how you would
make yourself known to the world,
my grief now protects me from the elements.
Friends offer silent prayers
for an end to this sadness,
secretly wishing they could erase
this chapter of our lives.
Forever changed, we are
more selfish, less trusting,
more vulnerable, less hopeful,
but more loving.
Our truth is that we are far better
for having known you.
You were here.
Forgotten? Never

Author Unknown


To My Husband...
Your tears flow within your heart,
Mine flow down my cheeks.
Your anger lies with thought and movements,
Mine gallops forward for all to see,
Your despair shows in your now dull eyes,
Mine shows in line after written line.
You grieve over the death of your son,
I grieve over the death of my baby.
But we're still the same, still one,
Only we grieve at different times--
Over different memories
and at different lengths.
Yet we both realize...
The death of our child.

~Pam Burden, TCF




Little One, Little One
Little one, little one,
Where have you gone?
Your going has darkened
The brightest dawn.
Why did you leave us
So soon, so soon?
Where can we look for you?
Over the moon?
On butterflies' wings?
In the heart of a rose?
Who knows, who knows
Where a little one goes?
Where have I gone,
I am not so small.
My soul is as wide
As the world is tall.
I have gone to answer
The call, the call
Of the One who takes
Care of us all.
Wherever you look,
You will find me there -
In the heart of a rose,
In the heart of a prayer.
On butterflies' wings,
On wings of my own,
To you, I'm gone,
But I'm never alone -
I'm over the moon.
I am home.
Author Unknown


 

 Light a Candle
Light a candle for those we mourn.
Into a new life they will be born.
Do not look for them at the gravesite.
They are somewhere else radiating their beautiful light.
They have gone to a new world where there is no darkness, no pain.
Their light and essence will always remain.
Light a candle for those who have left this mortal place.
They are free to travel through time and space.
When we think of them, they are near.
When we sit in a beautiful garden. Their voices we hear.
When we listen to a divine symphony,
We close our eyes, their faces we see.
Light a candle for they have not really gone.
With each flickering flame, in your hearts they will always belong.
© A.Pell 24/08/2005

 

 



 

Tributes and Condolences
Memorys of you   / Gracie Donahue (His Sister )
Remembering memorys of you is like looking back time and it brings tear to my eyes.Its hard remembering you because I saw only short time.i miss and love so so so so so so so so so so so so much
Missing you   / Aunt Jen (Aunt)
Kilian -  I'm so sorry I haven't written in a while.  Things get so busy down here.  But that doesn't mean I have forgotten you.  I vist here all the time.  I always want to leave you messages but I can never seem to wri...  Continue >>
Amazing, awesome angels   / Kayla Patek (none)
I'm so sorry for your loss. I was reading all the thoughtful, heartwarming tributes/condolences, and came across a quote used at my sister's funeral. When I saw this, I burst into tears. The quote was: If Tears could build a stairway, and memories a ...  Continue >>
tears  / Gracie Donahue (Sister)
If tears could build a stairway and memories could build a lane I  'd walk up and bring you back.
tears  / Gracie Donahue (Sister)
If tears could build a stairway and memories could build a lane I  'd walk  up and bring you back.
Kilian and Tiernan hunting.  / Tiernan Donahue (Brother)    Read >>
Thinking of you on Easter  / Mom     Read >>
The Easter basket and Kilian.  / Gracie Donahue (Sister)    Read >>
Happy Easter Kilian  / Sandy ~. Kelli Spaniel's Mom ~.     Read >>
Happy St. Patrick's Day Kilian  / Sandy ~. Kelli Spaniel's Mom ~.     Read >>
Happy St Paddys Day sweet baby boy  / Judy Of ^j^ Charles     Read >>
Four Long Years  / Tammy Donahue (Aunt)    Read >>
Merry Christmas in Heaven  / Grandma     Read >>
Merry Christmas in Heaven  / Grandma     Read >>
Merry Christmas Sweet Angel  / Janelle (Aunt)    Read >>
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The 3rd Annual Child Life Program Toy Donations done in memory of 
Kilian Richard Donahue and Preston Hugh Crooks.
A total of 245+ toys were donated by loving family and friends, and by loving people we don't even know.  I thank you all!

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Dear Jim & Jessie,
I have a child who has been very ill for the past 8 years.  Please know that my heart goes out to you for your suffering and your loss.  I understand, to some extent, your situation.  A child is so precious.  I've ordered Kilian for my garden & promise you it will never be just another plant in my collection but a way to keep his short life a beautiful memory in yet another place.
  Sincerely- Pat Smith.

Kilian Donahue Clematis  




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